Archive for July 2007
Happy Birthday, Mom
July 12, 1932, Leanna Franks Carter gave birth to a beautiful little girl, and named her Deva Mae. Deva Mae was the only girl of eight children born to my grandmother.
I can’t imagine growing up with seven (7) brothers…it gives new meaning to ‘tom-boy’.
On December 26th it will be four (4) years since my mother transitioned from this earthly life to life eternal. Each day I think about her; however, today is that special day when memories of her will fill my every thought-
Like now, there’ll be thoughts of sadness; but I choose to think on those times of laughter, when she’d make me laugh in spite of her pain.
Although I miss her greatly, my consolation is that she taught me how to live a life of faith, looking past the pain that cancer reeked in her frail frame, and seeing through eyes of faith into an eternal hope that awaits us all who believe Jesus the Christ.
Happy Birthday, Madear!
Love always,
Your only daughter
More than hope…
I was saddened to hear about David Richetson’s death. Apparently, everyone assumed he was recovering mentally and emotionally from his horrific ordeal in April of last year.
Perhaps, the fact that his attackers received life-long prison sentences would help his healing process and increase our trust in the integrity of the judicial system. But it didn’t; not enough to give David hope to continue living. Even surviving such an inhumane hate crime, and giving testimony to support the passing of a hate crime bill wasn’t enough to get this young man through the pain that he lived with everyday.
Undoubtedly, he believed that life could never be the same again; so why give it a chance; why hope? The truth is, we all grapple with this question when we face tragic life-altering experiences. However, the answer is determined by one’s ability to live in expectation and reality simultaneously, yet able to rationally differentiate between the two.
Sure, people say there is always hope; it comes with the dawning of each new day. And with it comes the opportunity to choose life one breath at a time.
Truth? No one can ever know how they’d handle painful tragedies and experiences of life that change every aspect of life and seemingly leave no hope of normalcy ever again until it happens. Again, truth is, many respond like David, unfortunately. It just doesn’t always make news headline.
Although we can’t define hope for someone that has been atrociously victimized, prayerfully, within our circle of influence we can persist in encouraging them to search diligently for the Hope Giver; the ONE who gave us hope through through His WORD—Jesus Christ, when we needed more than fragile reality and expectations —INNER PEACE.
My thoughts and prayers are with David’s family in this time of loss.
May the God of all comfort be with them. This is my hope… they that will find peace to live on knowing the truth.
